Catherine Friend
Catherine Friend

Happy Place, but Odd Happy Songs

My favorite thing to do is walk the beach on Sanibel Island in the early morning when it’s still dark. I move through the surf at low tide with a flashlight seeking uninhabited shells, humming the same two songs. For years, when I’m totally at ease and happily engaged, I always mindlessly hum these mysterious tunes. 

I finally decided I needed to figure out what they were, so did some snooping around—online and in my past. It turns out that when I am at my happiest, I’m either humming “You and I” from the movie “Goodbye, Mr. Chips,” or I’m humming the theme song from “My Three Sons.”

I get the “Goodbye, Mr. Chips” song, as my sister and I used to play the soundtrack album all the time. But My Three Sons? That’s a bit disappointing.

Sanibel Island is still recovering from last September’s devastating Hurricane Ian, and we can’t afford to just pop down there often any way, so I have the next best thing: My own ‘beach.’

I bought the table at Target. Melissa collected the fine white sand at the base of a nearby limestone cliff, and I dried it with a hair dryer. Then all our Sanibel shells, and a few from the Atlantic, went into the table. When I’m frustrated or tired, I open the glass lid and play with the shells, turning them over, identifying the ones I don’t know, and running the sand through my fingers.

But I do not hum “You and I” or the “My Three Sons’ theme song. For that I need to be walking on the beach at Sanibel Island, in the dark, with a flashlight.

(Not sure what this little guy is…but definitely alive…)

4 Responses

  1. Ever meet a stingray while walking with your flashlight, or do you do the Sanibel shuffle?

    1. Ha! I didn’t know about the Sanibel shuffle until after! Now I will definitely practice it. 🙂

  2. What a great idea of what to do to display your shells. I love it. Wish you could get to the beach for real. 🙁

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After twenty-five years on the farm, I’m adjusting to the adventures of city life. Part of that adjustment is figuring out what I want to write about now, since sheep are no longer part of my daily life. I’m challenging myself creatively by painting with pastels and playing the ukelele as I seek my new writing path.

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Catherine Friend is a fiscal year 2021 recipient of a Creative Support for Individuals grant from the Minnesota State Arts Board. This activity is made possible by the voters of Minnesota through a grant from the Minnesota State Arts Board, thanks to a legislative appropriation from the arts and cultural heritage fund.